Sandals, St. Lucia

Sandals, St. Lucia
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Thursday, May 26, 2011

How To Arrange the Rest of Your Life While Losing Your Mind!

Well I gave you some details up to the tour of the chemo center.  Next came the very difficult task of getting my affairs in order "just in case".  Sad to say as educated as I am, making a will had always given my the willies.  It seemed to me that this was so final but since my darling husband was not the father of my two sons I knew I had to get  in gear and make some arrangements.

Enter the infamous Krausinator as my youngest always referred to him. An attorney prior to teaching, Drew managed to make this process for me and my husband Mike so easy.  He handled every detail from start t o finish and even asked the questions that probably both Mike and I should have.  Who would have known right? Believe it or not my kids were already independent of our house, Jeff was married and living in Colorado, Rob was a graduate student at Virginia Commonwealth University. All I thought about was what would happen to my dogs! How silly right?  I kept forgetting that Mike would be left behind with all 3 of them.  Poor man!

 I have these words of advice to all of you out there even if you are not currently ill or recovering.  Make a plan while you still have time and stick to it.  Better sooner than later and you will be thinking clearly! Not in the fog of being diagnosed with cancer. 

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